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Single dad looking for single mom I'm a very focused and driven person. If I want to get good at something, I get good at it and usually very quickly. I've been held back from my potential by many circumstances throughout the years, but I'm finally on track with most things in my life. I had a harsh ejection into adulthood when I was pretty young, but that's a story for another time. I attend college at SMC and soon to transfer to LMC to major in ultrasound imaging. I work as a nurse's assistant at Lakeland Hospital in Niles, MI. I have a ten year old daughter who lives with me, and two younger sons that don't. I love being a dad and I'm very dedicated to my family. I have a lot of hobbies and interests; I've been playing guitar about 13 years, I play footbag (sport version of hacky-sack), speedbag, electronics, I repair guitars on the side, and I'm also a very avid reader. Some of my favorite authors are Irvine Welsh, Michael Crichton, Phillip Jose Farmer, and Kurt Vonnegut. Favorite TV shows are Breaking Bad, South Park, and a lot of the Adult Swim lineup. Some of my favorite movies are American Beauty, Pulp Fiction, Harold&Kumar go to White Castle, Snatch, Awakenings, Fight Club, Vanilla Sky, and The Usual Suspects.

As far as what I'm looking for in a woman: I'd like to meet a girl with one or two kids, mid-20s-30s, who is ready to settle down and build a life. She'd take care of herself, be a good mom, intelligent, optimistic, and affectionate.